The Dark Side Of Beauty
Underneath all of this, most of these powerful women have a ‘shadow’ or dark side.
This dark side is secretly wanting a man that is in control of himself, his reality, and them.
But they’d never admit it – often not even to themselves.
But their unconscious knows and recognizes this as something that they want.
They also hold a kind of inner CONTEMPT for the weak people (especially men) who give them everything they want, as is evidenced by the
” Oh, he’s just a guy he use to buy me things and “He’s my ‘Boytoy'” kind of comments that women often make to their girlfriends.
On the topic of men giving gifts to women and buying them things:
Many women will take what is available to them (even if they have to do a little manipulation for it),
but they will ultimately resent and disrespect a man that gives too much to them.
As a matter of fact, to most hot women THEIR REALITY is that men kiss up to them and that men will give them what they ask for or demand (worst case, they have to get upset or act bitchy to get their way).
AGAIN, THIS IS THEIR REALITY.
Men that don’t fit this are often just tuned out as if they didn’t exist in order to keep this reality as pure as possible for them.
(Also, I think that many women harbor a contempt for their beauty.
At a shadow level, they are kept from living a real life and being closer to the real world.
Simply because fewer and fewer people can relate to them in proportion to how ‘beautiful’ they are and make themselves.
Addressing this topic when speaking to women is VERY powerful. More later.)
Men are often behaving like ass kissers because they are afraid that a woman might get upset and leave,
and the fact is that by acting this way, a woman is MORE likely to leave.
It’s one of those paradoxes that’s a self fulfilling prophesy.
A woman whines, man say’s
“Oh, no… I need to kiss her ass or she might leave. Even though she’s being ridiculous, I have to go along with it…”
This is bad for her, for you, and for the relationship between you.
Learn to never let a woman act like a Brat without you calling her on it (AND IN A COOL, ALMOST IN DIFFERENT WAY!)
This is very counter intuitive, but again, we’re dealing with female human behavior, which has roots and drives that are complex and often difficult to trace.
The solution is to NOT kiss ass or do things for them like everyone else.
How she can never have anyone see her for who she truly is, and how every man she
knows would sleep with her in a minute, and how it often leads to less inner fulfillment).
The fact is that women will sleep with rich men who kiss their asses and model-handsome guys who don’t treat them well to satisfy their PHYSICAL drives.
But overall, an average looking man that takes good care of himself and makes enough money to live comfortably who is cocky, direct, challenging, confident, funny, and in control.
One who challenges her constantly and never kisses her ass EVER – will be FAR more fulfilling to a beautiful woman than the other types.
This difference is not only interesting to her, it’s challenging as well (something she doesn’t experience often).
A man that does such will not only be able to win her body – but also her interest and fascinatio – as well as keeping her messed up behaviors more in check and staying in control of the situation.
Note: If any of this sounds too far out for you, I recommend that you go out to a mall and find yourself a few really beautiful women.
Then ask them to read the last few pages of this post and to tell you if this is accurate write up.
If you’re a doubter, you won’t believe the responses you’ll get.
I’ve asked a lot beautiful women about these ideas, and almost EVERY ONE OF THEM has told me that this thinking is accurate.
You’ll also notice out in the real world that some fortunate men have either looks, fame, personality, or whatever that causes women to naturally act openly and receptively to them.
If you’re one of these men, then congrats to you!
If you’re not one of these men (I’m not, so I understand what it’s like) then you have to LEARN how to get inside of a woman’s mind and heart and CAUSE them to start acting this way toward you.
It may take a few minutes of conversation, or even up to an hour or so…
but if you learn the skills, you can learn how to cause women to act this way toward you, too.
Remember, attraction has different roads that lead to it.
Some are shortcuts, and some take a little longer, some more challenging, and
thus take some skill.
But there is a structure to the process, and if you learn that structure, you will be more successful.