How Women Test Men And Why
In my opinion, most women, and especially the ‘hotties’ have gone through a learning curve mostly in western culture that has, on average, given them a sort of predictable psychological makeup.
Now, there are differences between these women some are smart, some are not some are tall, some are short some are cerebral, some are physical etc. etc. etc
but there are things that most of them have in common. Ive made a study of these things because this is what interests me.
At some point in their lives, hotties began to be treated differently because they were attractive.
The social psychology concept called The Halo Effect. Simply stated, attractive people are assumed to be smarter, more honest, more trustworthy etc. than others.
The fact that people do whatever the hottie wants begins to blur their sense of reality, and makes them believe that they can just have whatever they want whenever they want it
AND THATS JUST THE WAY LIFE IS. (This applies in general)
Youll notice that many super hotties will throw tantrums if they dont like whats going on or not getting their way
this is a sure sign that they are not living in the same reality as most people
when they dont get what they want, they get upset because this has worked since they were little
Now, on a subconscious level, Ive noticed that most hot women realize that they are being ridiculous when they act like bitches, throw tantrums, etc.
but it doesnt really matter because it still WORKS for them when they want what they want
Underneath all of this, they are still FEMALE and they are looking for what other females are looking for
What are women looking for?
Well, for the record, I have no idea. After some years of studying people, “Freud” said that there was one question that he didnt have the answer to What do women want? Nice.
BUT, heres my take on it: First and foremost, they want a man that is in CONTROL (Of the situation, himself, his emotions, other people, her control of the entire reality that they share).
Let me ask you guys, if you were a woman that wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in control, how would you do it? Would you ask the man If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place? NO WAY!!!
So they test us by CHALLENGING to see if well stay in control.
The reason I do all of this Never give a woman a direct answer unless its NO
Never give a woman exactly what she wants etc. its, ironically, to give her what she REALLY wants a man thats in control.
Women want a challenge. Think romance novel themes
if you dont know what Im talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men, Adventurous Women
How to Succeed With Women By Being A Jerk Endless Rapture and Bad Boys and think about it.
Most of the time, Im enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person.
But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless
so they must be used with precision and at the right moments.
Whats interesting is that, teasing and seemingly controlling things with a bit of a dry humor spin, I believe that some women has an internal response like Wow, this guy is cocky, but I cant tell if hes serious or not
and I want to find out but either way, hes funny and hes staying interested in me, and not being flagrantly abusive so he must be interested at SOME level
The key is to WATCH FOR THE TESTS and be ready when they come.
Most guys screw up when a woman acts bratty when a woman gets upset, they say Oh, Im sorry and mess it up. Or they act nervous, etc.
You have to stay in control if a woman starts getting angry, instead of getting nervous, say Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum
so what, youve been doing this same thing since you were 2 and you didnt get your way. SPANK!
Another realization that Ive come to is that most women are totally intrigued by men that seem uninterested and crass
its almost like they say to themselves Wow, this guy seems kind of cocky
and I cant believe that hes not interested in having s*x with me like all the other dumb p*ssies that I meet
Hes funny and smart I wonder if I can get him interested in me and when I do, Ill just dump him like the other losers
but this might be fun Get it?
But if you are going to act this way, you have to keep it up until the end and I mean to the end.
I’m going to address the treating women well issue again.
I treat women very well they always tell me that theyve never met a man that treated them so well, etc.
How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?
Well, its simple really I do nice things for them ON MY OWN TERMS.
I will surprise them with a thoughtful sms, or a card or I might give them a nice massage
Next time youre going to meet a woman, tell her what to wear
choose the food and tell her to trust you if she asks for a kiss, say No
but kiss her later when YOU feel like it if you know that she likes chocolate, and she asks for some dont give it to her
but surprise her with some next time you see her get it?